💌 To My Soulmate (Wherever You Are)
I'm a lover girl after all
The universe truly does conspire for you, not against you. In school, in business, in family, in the quiet corners of your pursuits. But today, I want to talk about the way the universe conspires in your favor in love.
Love is, quite honestly, the most important thing we will ever experience. It is the thread woven through every beautiful moment this human life has to offer. When people, places, and things are made with loving intent, they last longer. They burn brighter. They root deeper.
And yet, there’s this strange taboo around love. As if talking about it openly makes you naive or unserious. As if loving love is somehow childish or unrealistic.
But let’s be honest. Haven’t we all laid in bed at night, staring at the ceiling, wondering when that great love will find us? Love is all around us—draped, woven, sewn into the fabric of our realities. We are not separate from it. We possess this mythological, cosmic ingredient inside of us.
Blame it on my cosmic assignment as an ethereal Piscean woman—not entirely of this world—or the overworked girlboss who would love to lie in a bed of roses in a couture gown. Either way, we need love. And we should never be scared to say that out loud. It’s natural. Divine, even.
Mirror Work & Soul Love
There’s an exercise I tell all my friends to try.
I say, “List all the traits you seek in your dream partner.”
After they finish compiling their list, I let the silence hang for a beat. Then I ask:
“Now… are YOU all of those things?”
Cue gasps. Stunned silence. Realizations showing up through raised brows and soft chuckles.
Because the truth is: self-love is the most important love.
The way we treat ourselves dictates how we cherish the people, places, and ideas around us. You can only love others at the depth and capacity you’ve loved yourself.
Platonic Soulmates Are Real (And Magical)
I’ve been lucky. In just 29 years of walking this earth, I’ve already met many soulmates—especially the platonic kind.
And I want that for everyone.
The Cristina to your Meredith. The Oprah to your Gayle. The Sean to my Nina.
The person whose soul has imprinted yours, without any need for romance. Just pure, platonic affection that teaches you what innocent love feels like. A gentle love. A soul-level tenderness that reminds you you’re never alone.
If you’ve had that kind of friendship, you know how magical it is. And if you haven’t yet—my heart aches for you. But I know it’s coming.
Life Is a Bullet Train—But You Still Get Choices
I believe our souls came here to grow. To experience. To evolve.
As an astrologer, I believe we each arrive with a roadmap—our natal chart. Life is a bit like boarding a bullet train. The final destination is guaranteed. But along the way, we’re granted free will: you choose your seat, what snacks you eat, whether you nap or stay alert. You can’t derail the train, but you can choose how you ride it.
And many of our most pivotal growth moments come through other people.
Romantic Soulmates: The Divine Mirror
Not long ago, someone told me they didn’t really believe in religion or spirituality.
Meanwhile, I do—openly and proudly.
I believe something bigger is at work. Call it God, the universe, Source, Spirit—whatever resonates. But I don’t believe in coincidence. I believe in alignment. I believe people enter your life at exactly the right moment. I believe we’re guided.
And I believe that soulmates help us evolve.
Especially romantic soulmates.
Romantic soulmates expand our consciousness in ways we can’t access alone. They help us unearth versions of ourselves we’ve long forgotten. They heal wounds we didn’t even know we carried. They awaken the parts of us buried under the demands of survival.
They are proof of your personal legend. (Read The Alchemist if that doesn’t ring a bell.)
Do not fear your romantic soulmate. Lean in.
To My Soulmate (An Open Letter)
The perfect man doesn’t exist.
But the perfect one for me does.
To my soulmate—
I know you’re out there.
People always ask me what I look for in a partner, and my answer is always the same:
“I’ll know when I see it.”
I was complete before you arrived. Whole. Full. Joyful.
But when you do arrive,
my cup will runneth over.
Life will feel even more Edenic—not because I was missing something, but because now it’s being witnessed.
So pop out of the woodwork. Enter the field. Drop into reality.
Let’s show the world that love was never something to fear.
Let’s prove it’s the most powerful, inspiring, desirable force there is.
Don’t worry.
I’ll know it’s you when you arrive.
With love,
Nina
